Do you always want to be in a relationship?

Wel all know someone who always needs to be in a relationship. If you are a girl that suffers from love addiction, you have to know that you don’t need a relationship to validate yourself.

I find it so sad when I see a woman who can’t bare to be by herself, is always seeking attention from others and needs to be in a relationship. Women who feel as though they are nothing without a relationship need to realize that they are so much more than the relationships they are in or have been in, and are much more than they attention they seek.

Read on to see why it is okay to be by yourself.

1. Being alone does not mean being lonely

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Let me get one thing straight: this article is not trying to bash anyone who loves being in relationships or who has been in quite a few relationships. This one is a message for the women who feels as though they are nothing without one and who suffers from so called love addiction.

Even if you are single, that does not mean you have to be lonely. You should learn to become your own best friend. Love yourself and spend time with yourself.

Spend time with your friends and, if you are the type to ditch all of your friends for a significant other, then try harder to maintain friendships. Spend more time with your family as well.

Just know that even if you are alone, that does not automatically mean you are lonely.

Learning to be alone with yourself is extremely important. At the end of the day, who do you have? Yourself. It is never guaranteed that you have someone else. You have to learn to be okay with that.

You do not always need someone to give you attention and affection. Learn to give that to yourself.

2. You are more than a relationship

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I know some women who truly believe that they are nothing if they are not in a relationship or even just “talking” to someone. Yes, a relationship can add a lot of positivity to your life and make it more special, but how could someone feel as though their life is so empty without one? There is more to life than that.

Don’t fill up your life with attention from the wrong people just to feel validated. That will just make you feel so much worse in the long run and shatter your self-confidence.

Someone right will come along, but, in the meantime, you need to learn that even if you are not in a relationship or with someone, it is okay. It is more than okay; in fact, it can be wonderful.

Take the time to learn about what you really want and gain independence. Feeling like you have to be dependent on someone else can make you feel even lonelier in the long run as well. You can shine all on your own; you are so much more than any relationship.

3. Changing your ways will gain you respect

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In all honesty, people will know if you are desperate for attention and a relationship, and it can really attract the wrong kids of people. There is a reason why you maybe have gone through a lot of people.

The kinds of people you attract are the people that will just give you that short-term attention and then drop you like nothing. Or, they know that they can mistreat you because they know that, no matter what, you will stick around.

Don’t be that girl—the one who stays with someone just because they don’t want to be lonely. If you respect yourself, love yourself and do not allow yourself to be mistreated; it will attract someone that will not do you wrong.

If you show that you do not need someone, it will make someone else work even harder to be with you. Nothing is more attractive than a woman who is confident within herself.

What you start to work on the inside is what you will attract from other people. Know your worth, and then someone who is worthy of you will come along.

If I have to end with one thing, it would be that it really does break my heart to see women who suffer from love addiction and who feel as though they are nothing without attention.

I just want to hug them and tell them that they are so much more, and I wish they could see that. Let this article be that hug and message from me. I know you are worth more than you may think you are.

Do you have any other pieces of advice for someone that feels as though they are not validated unless they are in a relationship? Comment below!


It’s the season of the Gemini. Geminis can be tricky to attract, but not if you play your cards right and know what to do. Read on to learn all about the beautiful sign of Gemini.

If you’ve ever met a Gemini, you know that they’re both smart and beautiful. Geminis are the brains and the brawn of the astrological signs, but winning the genetic lottery doesn’t make them popular people. Geminis are extremely independent.

They stand for what they believe in, but mostly they stand for themselves. You can’t break a Gemini, no matter how hard you try. Freedom is necessary for them to feel alive. This feeling of being free that they seek is from the energetic personality they all have. It’s sort of child-like in a sense. If you try to tie a Gemini down, it won’t end well for anyone in the situation.



Geminis are known to be adaptable, but only adaptable to situations they can handle. They react instantly, are very frantic people and their regular anxious state will rub off on the situation They’re known to be very indecisive and devious, and that will hurt them in quick shot situations. Of course, they’re not all bad. If you’re stuck in a funny situation, Geminis are very clever and imaginative.

Having a friendship with a Gemini can be very exciting. They are flighty people, but that’s because they love exploring, meeting new people and trying new things; it doesn’t mean that they’ve left you behind.

If you ever need any advice, seek out a Gemini. They are wise, caring and, if you ask them to be, brutally honest. Geminis rarely lie, so they’re the perfect friends. Many people think Geminis are incredibly superficial, and they’re right.

Geminis are the type who judge a book by its cover rather than its content, and that tends to lead them to form the wrong impressions of people and can damage relationships.


Geminis don’t share much of themselves. They usually think that showing emotions makes them look weak, but it’s the exact opposite for them. If they show you how they really feel, they are vulnerable, yes, but they are close to you and they trust you with all they have.

They really do love to talk. They love communicating with other people and hearing their opinions—though they probably won’t agree due to their mentality that their way is the right way and there’s no other way to do it—and having a back-and-forth with their peers.

Physical features

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Geminis have the most beautiful eyes—sparkling and expressive. They are slim and a little taller than everyone else. Their facial features are well-defined, with flatter noses and big lips. Gemini men and women tend to be slender and toned. Some would compare the typical appearance of Geminis to that of a supermodel.

Their fashion sense is tame and comfortable, wearing fashion sweatpants and high-end accessories; Geminis always look incredible. A Gemini can wear anything and look great all the time, but if they want to impress you, they will wear shining hues of silver and gold.


If you’ve spotted what seems to be your dream guy or gal and they just happen to be a Gemini, you need to know that they can be hard to be with. A surefire way to get them to like you, or at least be interested in you, is to be deep and mysterious. Geminis don’t really read into people much, so the ‘cooler’ you act, the more they’ll like you.

They like to have freedom in a relationship, so the longer you hold out on telling them too much about yourself, the longer they have to keep guessing. It’s exciting for them and that will push them over the edge into your arms.

You obviously can’t be in a healthy relationship when you’re pretending to be someone you’re not, but to keep them happy and not let them flee, surprise your Gemini and keep them on their toes. The special occasions on which you do this will make them love you even more. Routine and boredom are a Gemini’s biggest fears, so if you’re up for it, always keep them on their toes.


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Being infatuated with a Gemini is incredible: the thrill, the excitement and the mystery are all enough to push you into having feelings of love. Just because you like someone, though, doesn’t mean you will work well together. Compatibility plays a significant role in healthy relationships; without it, what’s the point?

The best signs to be with a Gemini are Libra, Aquarius, Gemini and Sagittarius. Libra and Aquarius are a great match for Gemini because they’re all Air signs. All elementals fit best with their twin elementals. Sagittarius, as a fire sign, will make a big impact on Gemini’s life because they are opposing signs of the zodiac.

Geminis with Water and Earth signs wouldn’t be the ideal pair because they would be the type of relationship that require more effort, and many Geminis won’t work for something like that unless they know it’s fate. Relationships between Gemini, Virgo and Pisces would be the most difficult because Virgo and Pisces square Gemini on the zodiac wheel.

The year ahead

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2016 isn’t the best year for love for Geminis. Saturn is in Geminis house of relationships, and that can make relationships hard and make Geminis feel like something is lacking.

The good thing about having Saturn, the planet of Karma, in Geminis relationship court, is that everything will come back to them threefold. If they take this time to love themselves, they will see how great they are and it will show. Their happiness and self-acceptance will shine through them, and everyone will be attracted to them.

September may be a better time to seek relationship status. Venus comes into play in Gemini’s house of love, and will stay there for an entire month. Sometime then, Jupiter will also visit Gemini’s house of love, and that will make for a very busy love life for the everyday Gemini person. Jupiter will give Gemini a sense of home and make them crave a familial kind of love.

If a Gemini is single at this time, it won’t be for long. It’s likely that a new love will appear out of, what seems to be, nowhere. However, the stars will align and fate will bring soul mates together.

May 21 to June 20 is the season of the Gemini. If you happen to spot one, you know how to attract them and entice them—even if not for a romantic relationship. Geminis are wonderful friends who are full of wisdom and curiosity. It’s never a dull moment when you’re with a Gemini!